Friday, September 21, 2007

I DO have wonderful children


There were times I was so mad at my children, I scolded and disciplined them, and sometimes, the more I scolded, the more I became angry, and the less they seemed care.
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Now, I have learnt to think differently (I still need to remind myself constantly) that “I DO have wonderful children”.

My children, they do fight with one and another, but there are more often that they are enjoying and playing.

Sometimes, they make a big mess in my living room, or bedroom, or kitchen, except their playroom. The sight already makes my blood pressure soar. I force myself to be humorous, rather blow a big temper, but just admit that they are just children;

Being children, that is why they make such a mess;
Being children, that is why they are mischievous;
Being children, that is why they are active, noisy and carefree….

Children do need our parent’s guidance, however they have a tender heart, which responses to love and tenderness very well. They will come to say "I am sorry mummy, are you still my friend?". or "Hug, just a little comfort."

I have found that the more I be a kinder and understanding mother, the better my children behalf.

After all, they ARE wonderful children.

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